For those following this part of my journey closely, I wanted to offer you an update because things have been RAPIDLY changing, and yet, everything appears to be unfolding just as we thought it would from the get-go. Weirdly, those two things can both be true.
I want to start by saying that I have put a lot of work into getting this particular treatment for myself and this treatment plan into place. Being a self-advocate and expert on my body and my disease takes hours and a lot of focus on details — which is more challenging now that my brain is much more mushy than before. A level of self-assuredness also blossoms from hearing and accepting all the support from my medical team, family, and community. I couldn’t do any of it without all the help I am getting from my community showing up for me and my family. We are turning out to be a really great team. Thank you all for sacrificing with me. Thank you for being tools in my toolbox that I can deploy when we need it most. We feel the love, and I am beyond grateful. I am humbled by your love and generosity many times a day. When you show up for us in the ways you are showing up, it allows me to be a better advocate and a better mom — my two leading roles in this journey. I never want you to think I expect the help or take it for granted. I am honored every time.
Finding the treatment
When Mass General wouldn’t take me on as a patient, I did what Hannah does…I kept pushing. My brain had just been radiated, and I was becoming more symptomatic, not less. I had started to see the information from major research institutions that LMD wasn’t something to wait patiently on. If I was going to seek more treatment beyond chemo and traditional radiation to my spine, I needed to get leg work done, now. My radiation team at Brigham and Women’s could only help so much, so doing the job was on my shoulders.
I have been going around in circles about how to say this, and I am sure I don’t have it perfect yet, but here it goes. Surgeons like to cut; they will inevitably find a surgery they can get behind. Oncologists believe chemotherapy is a tremendous systemic way of treating cancer, and they will find the right cocktail of medications to attack cancer cells. And radiologists like to radiate. But when you have radiologists who aren’t taking you as a patient or say just stay put and don’t seek anything else, it starts to feel like they don’t have hope. They know the dismal statistics, and without saying these words directly, they are saying give in to the reality of this disease and let it run its course. (As an aside, my personal doctors were not hopeless; this was from “outside” the team.) But that’s not what I want to do. I am not ready to give up or sign off. I have two children that need a mom. Other women are dying from this disease, and I don’t want this future for any of them. I want to be part of a revolution that can offer more information about this disease so that someday, there aren’t people losing their moms, sisters, daughters, and friends to this horrible disease. So, with that drive in me, I went searching…
The time that goes into seeking second opinions, new treatments, or clinical trials can be endless. It’s a rabbit hole that I could easily get lost in. My payout is hopefully more time and a good quality of life (QOL) for as long as possible, so it’s pretty hard to stop. However, I set a goal to reach out to five of the top proton centers in the US to start. First, I needed to know if they would even take me on as a patient, then would they expedite my case, and would they work with my insurance? How fast could they upload my files, images, and pathology reports? One door closed with one center that just couldn’t get my images, another door closed when the center said in their history of doing proton therapy, they have never had my insurance approve proton therapy for LMD MBC (say what?!), and the others were slow moving. Procure was the only center that actually panned out, and it was a center that wasn’t on my radar at all but recommended by Memorial Sloan Kettering (MSK) because they could move fast…and they have!
Pew Pew Laser Beams
Last week, I had the simulation and described that experience. The actual radiation differs from the simulation (and traditional radiation) in some ways and is the same in others. The parts that are the same are the basics: I lay on a table half-naked, and these friendly radiation technologists put my face mask on. They take pictures of my body and then adjust whatever part needs alignment based on those images. They leave the room, radiate me, and then I am done.
It sounds simple, but a lot is going on while I am lying on that table. My job is to embrace this mask and lay perfectly still. The mask at Procure doesn’t have any cutouts for my nose, eyes, or mouth, so it’s extra confining. I don’t have claustrophobia, but this is enough to even make me panic. I remind myself multiple times a session, “Don’t fuck this up,” because if I panic, I don’t get treatment, and they cannot give me that dose of radiation again, so I would be S.O.L. As I said, much is riding on getting the treatment and its success. The mental game is a beast.
The room itself where the proton radiation machine is located is HUGE. The device is this giant circular donut space with a table in the middle. Check out this page, which gives you an idea of how this looks for other kinds of proton therapy. My experience is similar but not exact. The video is excellent.
So, while I am lying super still, I can kind of see a black box above me that is taking the images that will help the technicians and doctors direct my body alignment. I am told there is another black box doing that somewhere else near me, but I cannot see it. The doctors are sent the images in another room and direct the technicians on how to adjust my alignment. Once perfect alignment has been achieved, everyone leaves the room, a doorbell chimes, a hydraulic-like noise shoots off, some little doppler-type poppings sounds happen for a while, another hydraulic sound, and then someone comes in to tell me that the first session is complete. That’s the upper spine, done. I can tell they are scanning something because of some beep near me, and then I am told, “Okay, it’s time to do the second dose,” which is my lower spine. Same thing as before on repeat.
From the time I am on the table to when I am hopping off to get back into my clothes, I am probably in there ten to fifteen minutes. It’s not a long time, but also, it feels like FOREVER. That mask man…it’s a weird one.
So no, it’s not a bunch of spacey laser beams shooting around me. But some pretty freaking radical science that I still don’t fully understand, blasting away cancer cells from my spinal cord.
What’s next
I’ll have a blog update for you soon with the post-radiation plan. The long and short of it is that I was starting to feel like proton therapy was my only hope, and I was beginning to doubt whether it was worth all of the effort. But as of today, I have renewed faith and hope that I made the right choice, and there is a plan to treat the LMD and the body metastases separately and simultaneously, and the new additions to my oncology team believe I have a good chance at gaining some QOL back, and I’ll get additional months with you all and most importantly with my kids ❤